This little incident happened over the interwebz a couple weeks ago, but it still pisses me off. This girl she's a total bitch and an attention whore. She also totallyed maimed lolita with her attempt. I'm not trying to be a rori-eritist, but srsly this shit is like totally unacceptable.
Basically I'm going to just copy and paste what was posted on the forum ...
my thoughtsThis is the dress I bought from linglam-
I wore Lolita to school for the first time. The outfit was comfy, so where the boots. (I didn't wear the hat to school, but I did for the pictures). Most of the teachers loved it. The students where jerks.
Now for the dress itself, I have to call it "cosplay" lolita. I know, Lolita isn't a costume, but the lace is of the cheap variety (but surpisingly soft *__*), and the dress is short for Lolita. But, I was very proud and happy of the dress. I wish the bows wherevelcro instead of pinned. The pin on the back bow was badly assmbled and stabbed me in the middle of the day.
One boot is almost half a size bigger than the other. I had to stuff cotton at the top so it looked normal.
The hat is nice, light, and comfy, but the clips attaching it to my hair are cheap. One broke the moment I opened it, and it needed to be replaced.
All in all, I'll give ling lam a B-. Decent dress, satifactory shoes, good hat. So-so shipping.
Please excuse the lack of Lolita hairstyle. I have normally frizzy hair (I straighten it all the time), and its hard to mangage when it is thick and clumpy, and I didn't know what to do, so I just let it down. I seriously fucking lawl'd myself to death when I saw this. Then I cried because she was trying to pass it off as lolita. I didn't know what to say about this dress. I mean seriously ... she looks like a saloon girl! I was just waiting for her to say this was a joke ... or at least to scroll down and see some pictures of her on top of a bar and doing the can-can ...
It's cute, if we disregard the fact you called it Lolita.
I'm not trying to mean, but that's just my honest opinion.
Was it nessicary to put me on GTFO EGL? Seriously. I ADMITTED it to be cosplay, CHEAP HORRIBLE, ECT!!!!
I said ALLLLLLL the things you people would have pointed out first. WTF ... I didn't put you on GTFO EGL! Why the fuck are you asking me lady little girl? You have to be fucking retarded to the max to post cosplay lolita on EGL. Pay the consequences of your actions. Stop crying about it and get over it.
I found out that she had posted her pictures and basically copy-and-paste the shit from EGL to a forum. Except, on EGL she said she wore her dress to school for the attention. I guess she thought she was hardcore for dressing like a dumbass at school. Then she wonders why her peers were being jerks to her. I don't believe there's another dress in the world that shouts, 'Look at me I'm a douche!' more than that lovely gem there.
People suck, the end.
You shouldn't get so worked up about it. Some people are just mean and that's the way they are. All that really matters is that you know what is wrong with the dress and that it wasn't lolita.
You seem like you have full understanding of how lolita should be done. It's just a shame that you weren't able to get a proper dress, you would have done great!
No, I'm just hated where ever I go. Forums, schools, EGL,At home, on the streets I'M HATED.
I guess I'm just stupid.
Ermm ... wtf? I didn't say I hated you, no one on EGL said they hated you -- they just hate your dress. I don't even know how the hell that shit came up. I'm just trying to be nice to her ... and the reason for I have no clue why ... Have you had a bad day, or week?
I was looking on the comments you got on EGL. They didn't seem mean at all and they said that you were cute. It was basically your dress that got you on the GTFO EGL community, and that's where the mean comments came from.
Whatever is the true source of your unhappiness, I hope that the situation improves.
Don't forget that life is what you make it. If you just want to focus on the negative things then that's what it will be.
Its not improving, and somone commented on my "ugly mug"
I have self-esteem issuses as it is. I don't need you people calling me ugly.
Moar like a good week...untill yesterday night. The people on GTFO EGL were rather nice about the whole situation. Out of about the 15 or so people that replied to her only one person was a bit rude and didn't accept the bullshit that was her excuse. Her excuse was that her family is rather tight on money and that her mom only buys stuff online that's from Ebay. This was a surprise for her from her mother and she had no clue that her mother was doing this, much less she didn't even get to pick the dress. She had admitted that she thought it was ugly but she wore it with pride for her mother. It also sounded like she rather hated the dress but didn't want to hurt her mothers feelings. I never said that you were ugly, and just so you know, I'm not a member of any of the lolita communities.
The reason I haven't joined one is because of all the wank that goes on in them and most of the people are rude.
If you have self-esteem issues, posting pictures of yourself on the internet doesn't seem very logical.
Yeah ... there goes some more wtf ... she's putting words in my posts! She swears that I called her ugly and she's bunching me with lolita elitist. No matter the situation, when you say, 'You people ...' it's rather offensive. I still have no clue why I'm even bothering to be nice to her. Oh yeah, cause she's an emo-attention-whore, and a fucking retarded one at that.
Self-esteem issues + posting picture of yourself in non-lolita clothing on EGL = DOES NOT COMPUTEPlease shape up the topic. Do NOT let this turn into an emo-fest. Remember things could always be worse, you could be on fire, and that's definitely more worse than anything.
Anyways, if the emoing and self-hate continues, I will delete this thread. I wasn't trying to offend Pasta-Chan because I don't even think any of my posts contained anything that was offensive.
I apologize if I hurt Pasta-Chan's feelings but I wasn't intentionally trying to cause hurt.
I believe there is more to the situation than whole dress issue. Perhaps Pasta-chan just vented in the wrong place and it wasn't intentional.
The mod stepped in cause that stupid stupid stupid girl was being emo and shit. I saw in another thread that her mom hit her or something because she didn't want to eat pasta for dinner because she had already ate ... or something I don't remember the specifics ... I figured she just had a bad a day or whatever and that's why she was being stupid.
Even after I apologized for doing NOTHING wrong to her she just ignored it. I also turned out to be the bad guy cause all the people posting in the thread don't even know what the hell lolita is and they tell her she looks cute. It's like they're encouraging her to go around parading in that organza and lace nightmare. It seriously fucking looks like a prom dress and lace fucking mated and this is their hellish offsrping. I only say prom dress because most prom dresses are made from that awful tacky organza and it keels mah eyes.
About a week after this whole incident she tried to do a Misa cosplay. Someone tried to give her con-crit about the attempted and failed cosplay. Long story short, the person told her that her hair wasn't accurate, and she should either dye it or use a wig. Then this stupid pasta girl got all offended and said that not everyone wants to dye their hair or wear a wig
just for cosplay. Umm ... that's what weeds out the
good cosplayers from the
bad cosplayers. Then she was also saying that the live-action movie Misa had hair that was just a shade darker than her own. Honey, that's like a shade darkerx10 -- Shorty, go fix this girl's eyes there's something wrong with her color perception.
Helpful person then told her that they were sorry and that they should have probably lied to her next time and said everything she did was perfect. They also suggested that retarded girl should just say she was an original version of Misa. Helpful person also mentioned that they
never said that retarded girl
had to dye her hair. Then retarded girl got her panties in a bunch and blahblah said helpful person didn't have to be snarky ... Helpful person was really confused, apologized, wished her good luck, and never returnded. Now comes in a third person telling retarded girl that helpful person wasn't being snarky and that retarded girl needed to lighten up. Third person was really nice about it too. Retarded girl gets pissed off and said, "Subject was DROPPED, no need to bring it up again." Third person apologized and wish retarded girl luck.
So there you have it, retarded girl is basically a teenage brat ... bitchy, bratty, attention whore DOES NOT WANT
get out of the gene pool plz kthx
Let this be said, not all teenagers are brats. As shocking as that is, it's true, really.